This weekend, I have attended the https://www.pydays.at. This time I am not going to talk about the stuff I learned on it. Even though the Workshop: Analysing 200 Years of Political Debate was both funny and informative.
This time, I went with a friend of mine. And there are some things that I learned just from that.
I prefer buses to the cars. Mostly because I can read and work in peace and because I have more space. Mine friend was great and very understanding, but there is still a social pressure to not just put a laptop out and work on it.
Not to mention, the parking is expensive and it takes a lot of time to find the parking space. It is annoying.
The other point is, that I like travelling with other people. Having the company during breakfast and somebody to share the whole trip was surprisingly refreshing and nice. I am grateful, that I had company.
And that this company was better than the women in my room. They were not bad, but when we went out, they most of the time talked about travelling and men. The first is somehow interesting, the second not at all.
But it does have a negative side as well. Having him there, it gave me the excuse to not socialize with new people. I never noticed this explicitly, but thinking back, that has always been the case. Something to keep in mind.
I don't mind going to the events alone, I have a lot of practice, but it is nice to know, that I need to go somewhere, I don't know anybody, if I want to learn something new.
I also had this weird phase of knowing somebody, where I met them before, I remember them, but I have no idea, how to act around them. Maybe this is why I have problem making regular friends? Something to keep in mind.
Another thing that I noticed is, that recently I have a lot of signs to talk more at the events and to start organizing the events. I noticed both of them. Even more, I noticed that I started to seriously consider this. So this is something, that I need to keep in mind. Which makes me wonder, when will I ever get a normal job and a normal life?
The last thing, that I can remember, is that I finally understand, why I don't like the current feminism. I decided, that instead of attending the lightning talks, I will try to attend the woman-only mentorship meeting. What I realized is, that their complains are small. It is that they don't want to be brushed off (everybody is at one point, and standing for oneself works) and that culture changes, when there is more women (which is probably true, but that does not mean, one is better than another). But they framed everything like a battle.
Which is weird, since gender is not the only interesting difference between people. I wonder what people would say, if there would be groups like that for right-wing people in social sciences or groups like that for old people in the athletic sports or groups like that for sociopaths in teachers in early education.
Plus, I had not draw that many pictures in a day in a log time. You can see them here: https://sarajaksa.eu/2019/gallery/
Otherwise, I got some things to think about, some blog posts to write and some code to correct. So overall, it was a productive weekend.